FIREPROOF My Marriage - The movie

**BeFit4Free** · #1 08-08-2009, 02:40 PM

I just saw the movie FIREPROOF last night and I have to tell you, if you're going through marriage or relationship problems, you absolutely need to see FIREPROOF - The movie. I am not married, and in fact, I got divorced earlier this year, but I wish I'd watched it before we ever starting dating.

I know there's things that all of us could learn from this movie, and even though I'm not married now, I'm going to order the book and study the book called, "The Love Dare".

The movie is about a couple who were married for a while and the main character is a firefighter who doesn't respect his wife and about how both of them fail to show love or respect to each other and make them feel loved. He has an unhealthy addiction to ****ography and puts the value of things like the boat he wants to buy above the needs of his wife.

As the movie progresses, the wife meets and starts spending too much time with a doctor who she works with (who is also married). The husband's dad gives him a hand written book called, "The Love Dare".

The Love Dare is a plan that he chooses reluctantly to follow which consists of 40 days of selfless, loving acts to show his wife that he is still in love with her. As he preforms the acts of love, the story has a lot of great turns but you'll just have to see it to appreciate what a powerful movie this is.

I'd recommend the movie, FireProof to anyone of any age. If you're a teen who is about to start dating or a couple who has been married for 40 years, I truly believe this movie can provide a huge benefit to any and everyone.

I'm going to order The Love Dare and study it, just so I'm equipped to support her and show my girl the love and respect she deserves. I'd definitely give the movie FireProof 2 thumbs up.

***FitnBuf*** · #2 08-08-2009, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by BeFit4Free

I'm going to order The Love Dare and study it, just so that when that special person comes into my life, I'm equipped to support her and show her the love and respect she deserves.

This quote tells me you are ready for that very special person. There are very few men who make it far enough to realize how they affect the women in their lives. Women need the same realization.

I see so many women make the natural mistake of reacting emotionally to men. Unfortunately this often only turns men off as men tend to think on a logically level. (Most) men approach issues methodically as if they are building a car. There always seems to only be one solution, and no regard for other possible solutions. The man appears to stop listening a writes it off as "nagging". Women on the other hand are like bulls in a china shop. As we see that we are not being listened to, we react emotionally. Darting flames out of our ears and shouting to the heavens! At times this is the only way a woman can feel heard.

Needless to say, neither strategy works. It either accelerates to unforeseen levels or left within them to fester.

You are a real catch. It may not be easy to see through the dust, but she is there, waiting for you.

I am going to check this book out, sounds great. Thank you.

padnar · #3 08-09-2009, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by BeFit4Free

I just saw the movie FIREPROOF last night and I have to tell you, if you're going through marriage or relationship problems, you absolutely need to see FIREPROOF - The movie. I am not married, and in fact, I got divorced earlier this year, but I wish I'd watched it before we ever starting dating.

I know there's things that all of us could learn from this movie, and even though I'm not married now, I'm going to order the book and study the book called, "The Love Dare".

The movie is about a couple who were married for a while and the main character is a firefighter who doesn't respect his wife and about how both of them fail to show love or respect to each other and make them feel loved. He has an unhealthy addiction to ****ography and puts the value of things like the boat he wants to buy above the needs of his wife.

As the movie progresses, the wife meets and starts spending too much time with a doctor who she works with (who is also married). The husband's dad gives him a hand written book called, "The Love Dare".

The Love Dare is a plan that he chooses reluctantly to follow which consists of 40 days of selfless, loving acts to show his wife that he is still in love with her. As he preforms the acts of love, the story has a lot of great turns but you'll just have to see it to appreciate what a powerful movie this is.

I'd recommend the movie, FireProof to anyone of any age. If you're a teen who is about to start dating or a couple who has been married for 40 years, I truly believe this movie can provide a huge benefit to any and everyone.

I'm going to order The Love Dare and study it, just so that when that special person comes into my life, I'm equipped to support her and show her the love and respect she deserves. I'd definitely give the movie FireProof 2 thumbs up.

For any relationship you should work hard. I used to wonder why westerners divorce each other when they have loved each other .
padma

***FitnBuf*** · #4 08-09-2009, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by padnar

For any relationship you should work hard. I used to wonder why westerners divorce each other when they have loved each other .
padma

Societies are different. What seems strange to ‘easterners’ it may be normal for ‘westerners’ and vice versa. People divorce for many reasons that are right for their specific situation. Although for ‘easterners’ may just look at it as a “hard love” for westerners, they would rather be happier with the correct fit then miserable with the wrong. When people marry, it may be on a whim. Or sometimes the intense infatuation or lust can be confused as love and a marriage becomes the result. Often times the person you marry never shows you their REAL self until it is too late. People who have enough support around them can be strong and move on, others stay unhappy inside, behind the mask they put on for everyone.

True love is not something you can develop over time. All that really happens is, you get used to each other and a friendship develops. There is a big difference between the two. But deep within you, you can feel incomplete, like your real love is out there and your obligations are preventing you from the happiness you crave (trust me, I know!). Sometimes staying together is more painful than being apart.

Neither is society is wrong or right, it is simply what is done there.

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